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2011-07-16 21-17-50

When do polys who are dating others disclose ?? What is a reasonable time for someone who is beginning to date to disclose that they are already in a long-term-committed-and-polyamorous/open-relationship?? I would have expected the answer to be "right up front"! I, a single woman, recently met a nice man and there was immediate attraction. We’ve gotten together x times in x days. There was a spark from the beginning, and we've been madly kissing and horizontal snuggling all along. During our very first date, we had a get-to-know-you chat, in which he asked me, "What is important to you in life?" One of the *first* things that is important to me is to know where my love interests are AT in their lives. So I started with "Are you married?" intending to go from there to "Are you presently in relationship at all, with anyone else?" He somehow felt that was a "slight of hands" on my part (his words!) in turning the questioning around to him. Ok, so I answered his question with a question. Turns out, he got ‘triggered’ by that (his words again). So he ducked the question, not telling me he was in relationship with anyone else. Last night over dinner I got this strange feeling he was hemming, hawing, and hedging. I started asked more pointed questions, and the story began to come out: He is in an x-year long relationship that is currently sexual, romantic and primary, albeit ‘re-calibrating’. I felt he was in some conversational avoidance pattern, so I had to ask more and more carefully refined, carefully worded questions in order to produce the information I needed. It was quite the dance, my trying to get him to tell me he was in relationship! Uh, isn't that something that should have come out at the very beginning???? I think that anyone with integrity, poly or not, should openly disclose a relationship, and not wait for the question to be worded exactly the right way at exactly the right time. I resent having to pull teeth or having to be extremely succinct in asking exactly the right questions to get that info out in the open! I shouldn’t have to guess at what questions to ask, in what order, in order to get such relevant information! Poly does not mean lacking integrity! Come ON!
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